“Jeffrey” (1995) is a romantic comedy that dares to place humor and fear side by side – and somehow makes it work. While most 90s films about AIDS leaned heavily into drama and tragedy, Jeffrey shrugged and said, “Let’s survive — and laugh while we’re at it.”
The story follows Jeffrey, a neurotic New Yorker who swears off sex because loving in the age of AIDS just feels too dangerous. Naturally, the universe responds by sending him the perfect man. Timing, right?
The cast? Fantastic. Steven Weber plays Jeffrey with charming anxiety, but the real scene-stealer is Patrick Stewart as Sterling – the flamboyant, fabulous mentor with razor-sharp wit and wardrobe to match. As he proudly declares:
“Sex? I practically invented it.”
The film plays with style — breaking the fourth wall, inserting surreal fantasy scenes, and serving up enough camp to make RuPaul blush. At times, it’s unsure of exactly what it wants to be, but its charm and honesty carry it through.
Yes, Jeffrey is a little messy. Very 90s. Occasionally over-the-top. But that’s what makes it precious: it doesn’t aim for perfection — just truth. It’s funny, scared, hopeful, and human.
This film is like a first date with someone wearing glitter boots, talking too fast, and showing every emotion in their eyes — you might not fall in love, but you definitely won’t forget them.