4th Man Out is a 2015 American comedy film written by Aaron Dancik and directed by Andrew Nackman. The film stars Evan Todd as Adam, a young man living in Upstate New York who, on his 24th birthday, comes out as gay to his best friends Chris (Parker Young), Nick (Chord Overstreet), and Ortu (Jon Gabrus).
The film premiered on May 26, 2015, at the Inside Out Film and Video Festival, and had a limited release in the United States on February 5, 2016. The film received the audience award for Best Dramatic Feature Film at Outfest, along with the audience award for Best Narrative Feature at the InsideOut LGBT Film Festival in 2015.
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“4th Man Out” attempts to navigate the complexities of small-town life and coming out with mixed results. Set in a quaint upstate New York town seemingly untouched by globalization or progressive cultural shifts, the film follows auto-mechanic Adam as he grapples with his sexuality and its impact on his tight-knit group of friends.
On the surface, the premise seems promising: a young man, Adam, decides to come out to his childhood buddies on his 24th birthday. However, the execution falls short, as the film leans heavily into outdated stereotypes and regressive humor.
The characters, particularly Adam’s friends, come across as caricatures rather than fully fleshed-out individuals. Their initial discomfort with Adam’s revelation is played for laughs, perpetuating the idea of gay panic and reinforcing harmful stereotypes about masculinity and homosexuality.
The supporting characters further exacerbate the film’s discomfort with gay culture. From a nosy, pious neighbor delivering a conversion therapy pamphlet to Adam being catfished by a married man, the film relies on tired tropes that do little to advance the narrative or promote understanding.
Even the protagonist, Adam, feels underdeveloped and lacking agency. His journey is overshadowed by his friend Chris, whose romantic escapades take center stage, further reinforcing heterosexual norms rather than celebrating diversity and acceptance.
Technical shortcomings, including incoherent editing and lackluster cinematography, further detract from the viewing experience. Scenes feel disjointed, and spatial dynamics are poorly handled, undermining any emotional resonance the film might have hoped to achieve.
In the end, “4th Man Out” falls short of its potential, delivering a dated and regressive portrayal of small-town life and coming out. While it may have had some relevance in a bygone era, its lack of nuance and sensitivity make it a disappointing watch for modern audiences.


















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